Emotional infidelity can necessitate The Magic of Making Up in your marriage?
What is emotional infidelity?
Is your spouse sharing more of their emotions with some other woman
than they are sharing with you?
That could be considered emotional infidelity and the next step may be a sexual affair.
There is a popular saying that “where the mind goes the man goes”.
This is often true in many aspects of life!
Have you noticed that when you start thinking about eating a certain
type of food, you then usually end up making that meal or going out
to dine on it.
Your Mind Leads Your Emotions!
Your mind is a powerful and drives our emotions. When we feel accepted understood and
consistently appreciated by someone that is the person we enjoy being with.
Your spouse IS NO DIFFERENT!
He will be emotionally drawn to the person who connects with him.
A marriage is assumed to be one of the most personal, intimate and cohesive relationship that humans can create, so when one spouse feels the need to go outside this union for emotional support:
Can physical infidelity be far behind?
Safeguard your marriage by taking regular and honest assessments of yours and
your spouse’s needs and see whether those needs ARE:
- Being met
- Changing over time
Keeping the line of communications open in any relationship is integral to
maintaining it over the long haul, this is even more so in a marriage where
unresolved anger can lead to resentment, bitterness and ultimately estrangement, sexual affairs and divorce.
Not all emotional infidelity leads to a sexual affair, but why take the chance with your marriage or relationship?
Rather than put your marriage in jeopardy spend the time examining your relationship to see why your partner or spouse finds it necessary to seek outside “soul mates” “best friends” and confidants.
Remember no one is perfect and that “other person” is no exception, they
might just be providing your romantic partner, lover or spouse with an environment or outlet for their emotions.
You can do that too!
Make your relationship a priority and a safe haven in which both of you can be emotionally engaged, faithful and satisfied.
If you are still in love with your spouse and want to remain married to them,
then nip emotional infidelity in the bud and re-open the emotional channels
in your marriage.
Enjoy The Magic of Making Up!